Why women should initiate sex more in relationship

Not only has it been claimed that the average male thinks of sex at least once in a day, men have also been known to initiate sex twice as much as women do! Also, a lot of women do not feel comfortable initiating sex, because of social conditioning that has led them to believe that being the sexual aggressor renders them a ‘slut’ or a ‘whore,’ and for people with such mindset, to initiate sex is to be subjected to shame and ridicule. These reasons have somewhat made it ‘natural’ that men should be the ones to always initiate sex and get every happy hour started. For women in relationships and marriages, though, you can’t afford to think this way. Letting your man initiate

My Husband And I Still Have Good Sex Despite Our Old Age – Actress Joke Silva

Veteran actress, Joke Silva Jacobs has revealed that she and her husband Olu Jacobs still “do the do”. Joke stated this during her appearance as a guest on TVC’s popular show, Your View.   “Yes, we still do the do, but in a way that is suitable for our age”, the actress said. Silva, a Member of the Order of the Federal Republic (OFR), also spoke about how she was sexually harassed by university by a professor as a mother of two children. “This issue of sexual harassment does not have anything to do with how you dress. I didn’t want to go to university because I just wanted to do my acting thing and my parents allowed me. “I already had two children before going to the

Women’s Sexual Desire, Why Men Often Don’t Recognize It

Women’s Sexual Desire, Why Men Often Don’t Recognize It

We’ve learned a lot about women’s sexual desire in the last few decades. Back when sexologists were mostly male, sexual desire—or “libido” —used to be thought of as like some kind of hydraulic pressure in the body. Like the pressure most young men feel when they need to ejaculate. But the hydraulic model doesn’t fit the facts of most women’s sexual desire. Most women need a reason to have sex. Otherwise, they might go for a long time without feeling desire. Men need a reason to have sex, too.  But for most men, the reason can be as simple as your partner taking off their shirt. Most men’s minds tend readily to say “yes” to sex. Whereas most women’s minds tend to say “maybe,” or “that depends.” A sex

This would help you determine if he truly loves you or not

Love, as amazing as it is, can also a bit scary especially for ladies , and a lot of them keep their guard up until they are sure their boyfriends feels a certain way in order to keep from getting hurt. 1. He listens to you We can't deny the fact that women are much better listeners than men.  So, when a man not only hears you but actively pays attention and responds – a skill called active listening – you can have confidence that he cares.   2. He plans the 'us' future If he constantly talks and daydreams about you two in the next year or years together every time, he definitely loves you. That would simply imply he can't see himself in the

Did you know divorce can affect children negatively?


And so you have to start learning new ways of being, learning how to parent again and trying to establish new routines for the kids. Some kids might take everything in their stride, while others are completely shaken up by it. The effect of divorce on children isn't something you can be totally sure about in terms of what the reactions may be. What can lead to a divorce? A divorce usually occurs when two lawfully married couples decide that they can't continue in the marriage because of irreconcilable differences and so they seek for ways to dissolve the union in court. What is peculiar about divorce in Nigeria is the fact that most people don't go to court for divorce to happen. Most times

What’s so special about body counts?

Body Counts, What's so special about body counts?

When you think about it, there really is nothing to gain from the body count information except that it satisfies your curiosity. Really, it's simple; If you think she is kind, smart, intelligent and fun to be with, how does her body count suddenly change all of the positive vibes you feel with her? Women don't police men's body count. Men need to stop taking inventory of theirs. You don't need to know your girl's body count; stop asking her for it!  Before explaining why body counts should not be a subject of conversation in your relationship, it is important to explain what it means. Simply put, body count is the number of people you have sex with. It does not matter how intimate the make out

Love Without Sex? Sex Without Love?

Is Your Man Always Available For Sex?

Love without sex You could call it “platonic love,” “cordial love” or even fake love. The question is, can there be true love in a couple without sex? To answer that question, we need to focus on a point that’s so often looked over: a person’s sexuality doesn’t always match up with their genitalia. This affirmation can especially be almost incomprehensible for men or women who are “too masculine.” They don’t understand that their sexuality goes beyond their genitalia. On the other hand, many women, and a good number of men, know that sexuality is a constellation of sensorial experiences. A kiss or a hug is an expression of sexuality, not just a “preamble.” Your touch, your voice and your caress are all forms of reaching out with your sexuality to your partner. But getting back

Was gonna commit suicide just to frame him for murder

Was gonna commit suicide just to frame him for murder

A Twitter user with the handle @alvscii took to the platform to reveal what she did when her boyfriend broke up with her. This revelation comes after a lady asked other users on the platform to state the craziest thing they have done after a breakup. READ > My Relationship With Khafi Now At Permanent Site – Gedoni (Video) @alvscii replied the tweet by revealing how she considered committing suicide to frame her boyfriend for murder. She tweeted: “Was gonna commit suicide just to frame him for murder. The breakup was rough.” She added: “He was my first boyfriend and he cheated with a friend. Love makes you crazy.” See post below: Click here for more stories...

Do celibates feel horny?

Do celibates feel horny?

Yes of course they do! You know celibacy goes against the grain of bodily desires. As a young adult, your body is wired to crave sexual release and the fact that your mind becomes tuned to celibacy does not mean your body will be free from sexual urge. There will be times when it will be nearly impossible to keep sexual urges under control. So when you find yourself in situations like this, what do you do? Here are seven useful tips that could help you out. 1. Don't dwell on it It's impossible to not have flashes of sexual desire every now and then but because you do not want to have sex, you need ways to drown out the thoughts. It's easier to

First time I asked her out, she looked at me and said are you drunk? we are friends!

Donald Duke

Former Cross River State Governor, Donald Duke, has revealed his wife’s reaction on the first day he asked her out. The 58-year-old said in an interview with PUNCH that he met his wife, Onarie, in 1980 while campaigning for social secretary position in his university days. “After the campaigns, we became friends and the first time I asked her out she looked at me and said are you drunk, we are friends, how can I go out with you? The rest is history as they would say,” he said. READ > Sexual violence: EU drops Basketmouth as one of its influencers Mr Duke had a long battle with former senator, Jerry Gana, for the presidential ticket of the Social Democratic Party (SDP) in the build-up